
As I head toward my little munchkins first birthday, I have found myself reflecting on some of the enormous changes that our life has undertaken in the last 12 months.
Some of the new ways of life were predictable; we knew about the sleepless nights, the joys of first smiles and first words (although the real thing has been better than we expected) but one of the pleasant and unexpected changes has been the way my little suburb has gone from being a place where my neighbours were strangers, the park a place un-explored and the local shopkeepers were people we saw once in a blue moon in an anonymous exchange...to a little village with familiar faces and new friends.
For the first 11 months of Isobels life, I had no licence to drive. I see this now as a blessing. We walked so much and apart from the odd little adventure in to town, we didnt spend much time outside of our suburb during the week. I have shopped locally on a daily basis... I now even *gasp* have my hair and waxing done at the local salon instead of the upmarket and overpriced place I used to go.
The butcher, baker, greengrocer and half our neighbours all know my name. I even nanny for a local family twice a week with Isobel and the three girls are now like her part time sisters. On my days off, we often run in to them in our village. That always makes me smile.
My mothers group all live locally and when one of them recently experienced a sad loss, I popped over to her house to deliver flowers from all of the 'local ladies'
I often hear new mums complaining of how hard it is stay at home all day with a infant who doesnt talk, that it is boring and they feel lost. I would be lying if I said there hasnt been times that I have felt a little bit like this but for the vast majority of time, this experience has really brought me back to the basics of what life is about. What it means to be a woman and have a family, a community. I feel for once in my life that I have truly found my place in this world.